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~Dorothy

Quick Tip for Sheet Mask Users!

I'm obsessed with sheet masks! So much so that I buy them and hoard them. I put them in a drawer and I count them, I admire them, I think about which one I am going to use next. But, it's the "one time use" thing that makes me hesitate, deliberate, commiserate (with as well as for myself, of course) about actually using one. I have the same issue with bottles of wine that were gifted to us by friends on special occasions. Every time my husband reaches to open one of the "special" bottles, I break out into a sweat and scream "NO, this isn't a special enough occasion!" and the wine then rots away in the bottle, usually in direct sunlight, and turns into something even I can't bring myself to drink.

I should also tell [those of] you [without psychological barriers like mine] that if sheet masks are not in your skincare arsenal, they probably should be. They are great for extra hydration (especially when traveling), soothing redness, scaring the kids, and taking selfies:

I've recently began to break through my hoarding tendency thanks to this tip: don't throw out the package right away! What I've been doing is putting the mask package inside a plastic bag after removing the sheet mask itself, and then using the remaining serum as part of my skincare routine (after toner and before moisturizer, day and night) for as long as it lasts.

It really makes spending the money on the mask and then USING it a little less painful for me. Yes, the packages are very pretty, but they aren't doing me any good just sitting in my bag o'masks in my bathroom. Just like the wine isn't doing me any good sitting on the shelf. 

Products I used in Winter Makeup Tutorial

If you watched the video, I have 2 questions:

1. Did you learn anything useful?
2. Did you like how I transported mid sentence from stage left to stage right around the 8 minute mark? I'm so talented....and can't stop laughing about it.


These are the products I used as promised....

Primer: Makeup Forever Step 1
Foundation: Maybelline Fit Me Dewy + Smooth
Concealer: NYX Waterproof Concealer
Concealer: Rimmel Match Perfection Concealer 
Blush and Lips: RMS Beauty Lip2Cheek in Beloved
Highlighter: RMS Beauty Living Luminizer
Eyeshadow: Chanel Illusion D'Ombre in Mirage
Mascara: L'Oreal Voluminous Butterfly Intense Mascara
Mattifier/Finisher: Benefit Dr. Feelgood 

Winter Make Up Tutorial

If you have dry skin, read this....

Grape-seed Oil

My skin is pretty dry during the winter, especially because I continue to run my dog Winnie outside in the early morning along the beach with the wind whipping in my face, tears streaming down my cheeks, and lungs spasming uncontrollably from the ice cold air. I'm headed out early tomorrow if anyone wants to join in on the fun. To make it even more enticing, I usually sing the Doc McStuffins theme song over and over while I run. Pretty sure my dog has tried to kill herself a few times.

To combat dryness this year, I've been trying an extra step in my post-shower routine: Grape-seed Oil!

It's super light and not at all greasy compared to something like coconut oil which is very thick and heavy. As soon as I shut off the water in the shower, I shake off like a wet dog (head first, butt last) and slather this stuff on.  Then, I'll pat myself dry with a towel (or drop down on the bathroom floor and use the bathmat) and proceed with with my usual Vaseline Cocoa Butter moisturizer. I've been using this brand of Grape-seed oil and it's highly recommended, if you're interested in giving it a shot. I'm telling you, it WORKS. Also, according to the all-knowing internet, it's made by extracting oil from the seeds of grapes that are left over during the wine making process. You guys, if this post goes viral and grape-seed oil becomes scarce, this would be a huge problem for me. We all need to start drinking more wine to prevent this from happening. Now!

A few of the many ways to use this beautiful oil in your daily life include rubbing some into split ends to hydrate and prevent hair breakage or pouring a capful into a nice warm bath. Fun fact: if you put some into a bath for little kids, you can watch them slip around like wet fish out of water- just don't forget to video the whole thing and save it for shameless bribery down the road. Also, you can add a touch to your nighttime face moisturizer for additional hydration. It hasn't caused me to break out at all, however if you are on the oilier side, I might not try it on your face.

Doc McStuffins, DocMcStuffins.......

Do you have a case of the "Dirty Face"?

The other day, I challenged myself to avoid touching my face for the entire afternoon. It was a complete and utter fail of epic proportions. Why is it so HARD? The same hand compulsively scratching my forehead and nose and resting on my chin was previously touching my phone, my snotty toddler, my STEERING WHEEL (which I think might be dirtier than a public toilet- anyone else's husband play hockey?),  and the dog slash skunk creatures that live in my house. Then I realized something: the human face is totally, heinously, gross. So that's why I decided that that a blog post on the proper way to wash your face is totally worth our collective time.

At the risk of stating the obvious, washing your face removes dirt, makeup, oil, sweat, environmental toxins, snot, dog hair, hockey-man debris from inadvertent post steering wheel face touching, and prepares your skin to absorb the very important step of serum or moisturizer. As we age, skin becomes more dry and needs to be treated with care. The older you get, the more care it needs. For this reason, it is not advised to be using the same, harsh face soap as the pimply high school kid down the street.  Your face should feel soft and clean after washing it, not like this:

BOO!

If this is you, throw that soap out. Just do it. Harsh soap causes stripping of natural occurring sebum (healthy face oils) which leads to increased dryness, irritation  and ultimately...breakouts. When we were hormonal teenagers, we had thicker, oilier, tighter skin so harsher products were needed to help control breakouts and maintain balance.  Also, if you're not a sweaty pig over night (and you change your pillowcases once-ish a week), it's OK to just rinse your face with warm water in the morning, especially if you're on the dry side.

Moving on.

I have good news: face wash is one product you should be buying at a drugstore (unless you have chronic skin issues such as adult acne, rosacea, etc and are seeing a dermatologist).  It's literally on your face for a minute and then washed off.  Don't wash your hard-earned bucks down the drain! There are so many different types of cleansers available, I would finish this bottle of wine I'm currently drinking before I got to the end of the list. Therefore, I'll share with you with a few of my favorite drugstore options for both gals AND guys.

Top 5 list:

1. CeraVe Hydrating Cleanser which is gentle enough to use on skin plagued by eczema and psoriasis, but also effectively removes dirt, oil and makeup. All the rage on the internet, recommended by all the fancy dermatologists. $7.39 at Target.

2. Purpose Gentle Cleansing Wash is my personal favorite. Soap-free, not at all harsh. Nice and smooth skin after use. $4.69 at Target.

3. Yes to Cucumbers Gentle Milk Cleanser is my second favorite. This line is the absolute best. Free of all the bad stuff (parabens, Phthlates, Sodium Lauryl Sulfates) AND it's soap free meaning it's going to be hydrating and not stripping of natural oils. $5.09 at Target.

4. Simple Moisturizing Facial Wash is one that I used for a long time before switching to Purpose. This stuff is great for sensitive skin, makes your skin feel sooooo soft, and is free of all the bad chemicals. The only gripe I have with this is the packaging- I felt like the product came out too fast from the container so I ended up with more than I wanted on my hand. Not a reason not to try, but I do hope they change their packaging. $ 4.39 at Target.

5. Boots No7 Botanics All Bright Micellar Cleanser is amazing. I'll explain more in a minute. By far the best new product I've tried in months. $7.49 at Target.

If your skin is on the "mature" side, please read on. These 2 cleansing options are great for skin that is a bit on the dry side, especially in the winter.

Micellar Water is probably the best new product I've tried this season. It's actually (in the spirit of Halloween) a potion of sorts which contains tiny little molecules called Micelles that eat up all the dirt and oil on your skin. The bonus included with this product is that you don't have to wash it off- it actually provides a little toning and hydration along with it's amazing ability to clean. This is what I use after exercising (the second most important time to wash your face because sweat=breakouts).

This stuff is awesome! Cheap and effective and available at Target = The Trifecta! 

Oil based cleansers sound scary but they are excellent for use on dry and more mature skin due to their gentle cleansing nature and hydrating properties, as well as a lot of them are packed with anti-aging antioxidants. Even if your skin is on the oily side, these are totally OK to use, as the oil in the cleanser literally devours the excess problem-causing oil on the skin surface, with enthusiasm similar to the crowd of hangry shoppers at the Lululemon warehouse sale last week. Burts Bees has an excellent option, as well as this Boots No7 option which has good reviews and is a little bit less expensive.

I'll leave you with this little reminder: Wash your face at night. EVERY NIGHT. It doesn't matter if you didn't put makeup or sunscreen on (gasp). I promise it will make a difference.

My advice to you about sunscreen

I want to share with you something that I learned recently:  If protected from the sun long enough to heal and regenerate, your skin might actually be able to REVERSE signs of damage that lead to wrinkles! Like, hello there reader who might feel like they can't do anything about preexisting sun damage other than expensive surgery or stem cell serum made from only the softest and plumpest of baby's bottoms. Please read on.

 I feel like most people are confused about sunscreen. It's clearly something we all know is important, however given all the choices available (wide range of SPF, different price points, EWG ratings, Mineral vs Chemical), it's hard to know if we are using the products that are right for each of us. The following is what I've learned in my research, both about why sunscreen is necessary as well as why I doubt you are wearing enough on a daily basis.

The sun emits harmful Ultraviolet (UV) radiation which is classified into two categories: UVB (responsible for burning, eventually wrinkles) and UVA (causes wrinkles). Exposure to both UVA and UVB rays can lead to skin cancer. SPF numbers refer to the level of protection against harmful UVB rays only. This is why you need to make sure the one you buy is labeled as broad spectrum, multi-spectrum or UVA/UVB protection. If you have a BB or CC cream that includes SPF, the ingredients that protect against UVA damage are zinc oxide, titanium dioxide, avobenzone, ecamsule, and oxybenzone. I will discuss BB and CC creams more in a minute.

To make things even MORE complicated, sunscreen can be broken down into two further categories: Mineral and Chemical. Mineral sunscreens (zinc oxide, titanium dioxide) deflect UV radiation from the sun whereas chemical sunscreens absorb it. For this reason, chemical sunscreens need to be applied to the skin for 30 minutes prior to sun exposure to take effect and mineral sunscreens are effective almost immediately after application.

Let's discuss where sunscreen fits in with your morning beauty routine. Wash your face, apply your serum, moisturize (if your moisturizer has SPF then you're all set), then apply your sunscreen prior to primer and foundation. Now, I know that a ton of BB cream and foundations have SPF added to them. This is great and I totally feel like if you're in a rush this is better than nothing. HOWEVER, the reason why I feel like it's smarter to use a moisturizer with SPF or a dedicated face sunscreen is that the amount of product needed to cover your entire face, ears, neck and upper chest (I don't know about you, but I don't want alligator skin in that area) is about 1 teaspoon. This is what 1 teaspoon looks like:

Now, BB Cream isn't cheap. Also, it would take me one hot minute to completely mess up my outfit and hair with beige streaks of face makeup. So consider keeping a face moisturizer with SPF or a dedicated face sunscreen in your bathroom so you can get the tippy top of your ears, your neck and chest when you're still in your post-shower robe or Disney princess towel (my adult-sized towel tends to walk out of the bathroom in the morning- I'm talking to you, husband).

Instinctually you would think that the higher SPF, the better, but that is not actually the case. The amount of chemicals needed to make a sunscreen over SPF 50 is not giving you a ton of added protection from the sun compared to an SPF 30. I recently learned that they are actually banning SPF over 50 in the EU! If your skin is sensitive, I would recommend that you choose an SPF of 15-30. Anything under SPF 15 is not worth your time or money. The not for profit organization called Environmental Working Group has a database of most available sunscreens in the US market which are rated on a 0-10 scale. The lower the number, the less exposure to harmful chemicals and risk of health concerns associated with use. I usually pull this up on my phone in the sunscreen aisle before purchasing something for me or the kids.

If you're in the market for a new face sunscreen, I have a few recommendations. The first one is La Roche-Posay Anthelios SX Daily Moisturizing Cream with Sunscreen:

This is a chemical sunscreen available at Target and is actually on sale this week!! I first heard about this from Lisa Eldridge, a british makeup artist who has a blog which I follow closer than the clock during Body Pump class at my gym. It's SPF 15 (and has an EWG rating of 2 which makes it just as good as any mineral option), so not appropriate for a day at the beach, however this would be great for any other normal day during the week. It contains Meroxyl SX which is said to be especially protective against short as well as long UVA rays, adding to it's broad spectrum coverage. It provides some serious hydration, making it great for winter especially. It's non-greasy, easy to apply, fragrance free and best of all it was not irritating when I used it on my eye area (don't forget that the skin around your eyes needs sunscreen too- most eye creams do not include SPF!). Even though it's found at Target, it's about $34 for 3.4 oz, or $10 per ounce. I still feel that this is a good value for both a moisturizer and sunscreen in one product.

The second option I wanted to share is brand new this month from the Honest Company called Beyond Protected Daily Beauty Fluid SPF 30. If I told you that Jessica Alba came over for a drink last night to bribe me into talking about her product, would you believe me? I wouldn't either. Anyways, I ordered a free trial of her new skin care line and her mineral based face sunscreen is pretty awesome. There is no white film whatsoever which can sometimes be present when using a mineral based product. It smells great and was nice and smooth when applied, not heavy at all. It's not technically a moisturizer, however it contains Hyaluronic Acid which is all the rage in skin care right now (I'll tell you more about this in another post) BUT if you have oily skin, I think that this would be fine for you without needing that extra step of a moisturizer. There is also an oil-free option available which I have not tried. This product is a little more expensive at $28 for 1.8 oz or $18 per ounce.

If you're still reading at this point, I have one more little tidbit I'd like to share. When you put your sunscreen on at 7am before work, it's hardly doing anything for you by lunch time. If you're out walking to lunch with friends, eating on a bench at the park (this is what a nurse thinks that people with office jobs do between 12-1, that and lunch beers), you're not protected from the sun. You might think "it's only 30 minutes, who cares?" Well, that's 30 minutes times 5 days which equals 2.5 hours per week times 52 weeks is like 7 or 8 wrinkles every year. Maybe lunch beers will keep that number at the lower range and clinical studies are currently underway to investigate this further. Kidding.

Here's my solution to staying SPF savvy all day. I have found two options that deliver SPF quickly for those periods of sun exposure during the day. The first is one that I've been using all summer. It's called Defense Refresh Setting Mist SPF 50 by Supergoop! I bought this in the travel size ($12) which fits in my purse (AKA diaper bag). It smells great and takes like 10 seconds to apply. The added benefit to this is that it's a makeup setting spray which mattifies your skin, so if you have a little noon-time shine poking through, this will totally squash it. This isn't for everyone though- it contains alcohol and does sting a little bit at first. Also, if my hair was down when I sprayed, that caused some annoying stiffness that caused me to have to wash my hair more than my ideal once per full moon cycle.

Setting spray with SPF

The last option is what I think is the absolute best thing ever. It's called Bare Minerals READY Touch Up Veil Broad Spectrum SPF 15 ($23) 

THIS. This is a great idea. Keep it in your purse, touch up your makeup and protect your cute little nose from the sun all while looking impossibly fresh (to quote Carrie Bradshaw) during your fun little lunch escape, or play date at the park (I'll win for the least shiny skin but lose for the dirtiest kids). This is something I'll be using for a long time. I looked around during my allowance of 6 minutes at ULTA yesterday for a similar priced and quality product and could not find one. 

Thus, my rant is over. I've become someone who does not leave the house without my Red Sox hat on the weekend, or full SPF coverage during the week (just kidding- I wear a hat covered with white sun screen fingerprints pretty much every day) but I feel like I will benefit from this obsession in 10 or 20 years. If you are someone who thinks that your skin is already damaged so why put in the effort, please reconsider! The price of youthful skin is paid over time for each and every effort you make to protect it from the sun. Or you can just buy some baby bottom stem cells. 

*please excuse my lame attempt at photography. I'll work on this if you promise to keep reading my blog!